I am living it, for the record. I still wear Bi Pride pins and belts and my outfest T-shirt and basically anything I can to remind the world that I'm not straight. I'm still going to attend pride, and drink at gay bars.Robovski wrote: ↑Mon Feb 04, 2019 3:32 amI cannot but agree. It's your life to live, you best be the one living it and not some jerk who doesn't like the LGBT minority.Darth Wedgius wrote: ↑Mon Feb 04, 2019 2:55 amWe'll probably always have people who want to hate someone, Fuzzy. I'm sorry, but no place is absolutely safe from any kind of violence for pretty much any reason. All any of us can do is to manage our risks.Fuzzy Necromancer wrote: ↑Mon Feb 04, 2019 2:02 am You know what?
The whole gun discussion is largely irrelevant to this.
This is scary to me because it shows how strong homophobic violence is in this city, where I live, which gets such high rankings for being progressive and queer-friendly. We have huge pride parades, we have gay and trans flags flying all over, we have a city council on LGBT rights...and there's still this.
It sucks, but tearing yourself up over it just hands a little more victory to the worst kinds of people. Enjoy life as best you can, just to spite 'em.
That doesn't mean I'm not afraid, or okay with it, or that i think "well then go get a gun!" is an appropriate or thoughtful response to the situation I live in.