What "nerd" community is left?

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CharlesPhipps wrote: Thu Aug 08, 2019 9:36 pm
Darth Wedgius wrote: Thu Aug 08, 2019 8:45 pmHow many people were angry about 40% of WoW players being female? All this sounds like just your impression.
I'm not sure what you're asking. Are you wanting evidence that nerd culture included sexism against female gamers and there was hostility/disbelief?
It seems increasingly likely that nerds never were social outcasts for their interests. It seems more for social anxiety combined with some toxic behaviors.
I'm asking for evidence that nerd's lack of social acceptance was largely caused by both social anxiety and toxic behavior.
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Darth Wedgius wrote: Thu Aug 08, 2019 10:31 pm
CharlesPhipps wrote: Thu Aug 08, 2019 9:36 pm
Darth Wedgius wrote: Thu Aug 08, 2019 8:45 pmHow many people were angry about 40% of WoW players being female? All this sounds like just your impression.
I'm not sure what you're asking. Are you wanting evidence that nerd culture included sexism against female gamers and there was hostility/disbelief?
It seems increasingly likely that nerds never were social outcasts for their interests. It seems more for social anxiety combined with some toxic behaviors.
I'm asking for evidence that nerd's lack of social acceptance was largely caused by both social anxiety and toxic behavior.
Because billions of people play video games and love "nerd" culture? Therefore it's mind-numbingly stupid to blame their interests for it?

FYI - not accusing you of making that argument. I'm not sure what your argument is for why nerds were outcasts.
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CharlesPhipps wrote: Thu Aug 08, 2019 10:49 pm
Darth Wedgius wrote: Thu Aug 08, 2019 10:31 pm
CharlesPhipps wrote: Thu Aug 08, 2019 9:36 pm
Darth Wedgius wrote: Thu Aug 08, 2019 8:45 pmHow many people were angry about 40% of WoW players being female? All this sounds like just your impression.
I'm not sure what you're asking. Are you wanting evidence that nerd culture included sexism against female gamers and there was hostility/disbelief?
It seems increasingly likely that nerds never were social outcasts for their interests. It seems more for social anxiety combined with some toxic behaviors.
I'm asking for evidence that nerd's lack of social acceptance was largely caused by both social anxiety and toxic behavior.
Because billions of people play video games and love "nerd" culture? Therefore it's mind-numbingly stupid to blame their interests for it?

FYI - not accusing you of making that argument. I'm not sure what your argument is for why nerds were outcasts.
Since you gave what you thought was the "real" reason for nerds being social outcasts, I was asking for evidence for that being the real reason.
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Darth Wedgius wrote: Thu Aug 08, 2019 10:52 pm Since you gave what you thought was the "real" reason for nerds being social outcasts, I was asking for evidence for that being the real reason.
Yep and I just said it. Because it wasn't their interests.

Do you disagree?
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The fact that schools don't actively encourage bullying like they did when a lot of us were in school probably has something to do with it too.
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@Darth Wedgius Pinning down an incel is tricky, and thus people may get falsely labeled as such. With that said, that is what an incel is, by definition.
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Yukaphile wrote: Fri Aug 09, 2019 12:11 am @Darth Wedgius Pinning down an incel is tricky, and thus people may get falsely labeled as such. With that said, that is what an incel is, by definition.
An incel is just someone who can't get laid and is unhappy about it, and misogyny may not be a factor.
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CharlesPhipps wrote: Thu Aug 08, 2019 11:36 pm
Darth Wedgius wrote: Thu Aug 08, 2019 10:52 pm Since you gave what you thought was the "real" reason for nerds being social outcasts, I was asking for evidence for that being the real reason.
Yep and I just said it. Because it wasn't their interests.

Do you disagree?
I was asking for evidence that "toxic behaviors" were the "real" reason.
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Darth Wedgius wrote: Fri Aug 09, 2019 5:10 amI was asking for evidence that "toxic behaviors" were the "real" reason.
Here's a good article on the atlantic that discusses non-social anxiety reasons. It also lists some other reasons.

https://www.theatlantic.com/sexes/archive/2013/01/why-geeks-get-bullied-its-not-necessarily-for-being-geeks/272723/
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No, an incel is exactly a man who is celibate "not by choice" but cannot attract women because of their own misogyny. That is the definition of them online and why people hate them so much.
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