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Re: Okay, I'm sorry for Everything

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Beastro wrote: Fri May 13, 2022 10:35 pm
Dragon Ball Fan wrote: Thu May 12, 2022 5:31 amYou can do what needs to be done to survive without hate. That's not an emotional thing, it's survival instinct.
Hopefully you never find yourself in the position of needing it then.

And what propels us to act, whether rationally or instinctually? Emotion. It is the gunpowder in a bullet, without it the gun cannot fire, that is why emotion is there. It is why when brain damage impairs emotions in people they don't become Vulcans, they struggle to do anything at all because they have nothing to act on like a foot acting against gravity pulling it towards the ground to push against.
And Unicron is also the embodiment of evil in the Transformers multiverse, and he destroys universes because he simply despises everything around him and thinks nothing besides himself deserves to exist.

Yes, as I said Moderns conflate chaos with evil, order with good. They are not those and good and evil can be expressed in both.
I am so against hate, that the mere thought of being anything other then compassionate to everyone at all times literally gives me a muscle spasm.
.... so you hate hate itself?

You're also being very black and white in your thinking, DBF. What you just expressed is absolutist. I'm sorry to say, but no one can be compassionate to everyone at all times, you will have moments where you will feel negatively towards others and many times those feelings will be valid.

I'd recommend looking at your schemas and seeing how you can change them.
If I have a negative physical reaction to those emotions, I don't think I can.
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Re: Okay, I'm sorry for Everything

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Dragon Ball Fan wrote: Sat May 14, 2022 12:47 am
If I have a negative physical reaction to those emotions, I don't think I can.
Carefully think over what you said that I was replying to:
the mere thought of being anything other then compassionate to everyone at all times literally gives me a muscle spasm.
You cannot live like that. It's impossible. You're setting yourself up for failure if you don't work on this.
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Beastro wrote: Tue May 17, 2022 4:37 am
Dragon Ball Fan wrote: Sat May 14, 2022 12:47 am
If I have a negative physical reaction to those emotions, I don't think I can.
Carefully think over what you said that I was replying to:
the mere thought of being anything other then compassionate to everyone at all times literally gives me a muscle spasm.
You cannot live like that. It's impossible. You're setting yourself up for failure if you don't work on this.
But if I live like that, I will not have a muscle spasm and be happy.
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Or you can continue to act like a self-entitled spoil brat, making yourself miserable just to act all holier than thou is pointless.
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Re: Okay, I'm sorry for Everything

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Dragon Ball Fan wrote: Tue May 17, 2022 7:02 pm
Beastro wrote: Tue May 17, 2022 4:37 am
Dragon Ball Fan wrote: Sat May 14, 2022 12:47 am
If I have a negative physical reaction to those emotions, I don't think I can.
Carefully think over what you said that I was replying to:
the mere thought of being anything other then compassionate to everyone at all times literally gives me a muscle spasm.
You cannot live like that. It's impossible. You're setting yourself up for failure if you don't work on this.
But if I live like that, I will not have a muscle spasm and be happy.
People cannot be compassionate all the time nor should they. There is more to life than that and compassion can be crippling. IIRC, I mentioned before that I've seen this happen to family members of mine due to how deeply empathetic they are with others, especially in pain.

Expecting the world to be that will torment you and expecting it is, again as with other issues like pointing the finger at the cartoons you watched as a kid, you refusing to grow and mature by holding onto what you refuse to shed of your past self.

We all struggle to do it and are all in the process of doing it, but you are actively defending doing it.
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Beastro wrote: Wed May 18, 2022 3:14 am
Dragon Ball Fan wrote: Tue May 17, 2022 7:02 pm
Beastro wrote: Tue May 17, 2022 4:37 am
Dragon Ball Fan wrote: Sat May 14, 2022 12:47 am
If I have a negative physical reaction to those emotions, I don't think I can.
Carefully think over what you said that I was replying to:
the mere thought of being anything other then compassionate to everyone at all times literally gives me a muscle spasm.
You cannot live like that. It's impossible. You're setting yourself up for failure if you don't work on this.
But if I live like that, I will not have a muscle spasm and be happy.
People cannot be compassionate all the time nor should they. There is more to life than that and compassion can be crippling. IIRC, I mentioned before that I've seen this happen to family members of mine due to how deeply empathetic they are with others, especially in pain.

Expecting the world to be that will torment you and expecting it is, again as with other issues like pointing the finger at the cartoons you watched as a kid, you refusing to grow and mature by holding onto what you refuse to shed of your past self.

We all struggle to do it and are all in the process of doing it, but you are actively defending doing it.
actually, fairly recently, I fantasized about hunting down and murdering right wingers, remembering what those shows from my youth, helped me out of that o I see that same budding psycopathy in a lot of the left, I know what it can lead to, so, that's why I focus on it.
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Dragon Ball Fan wrote: Wed May 18, 2022 5:20 am actually, fairly recently, I fantasized about hunting down and murdering right wingers, remembering what those shows from my youth, helped me out of that o I see that same budding psycopathy in a lot of the left, I know what it can lead to, so, that's why I focus on it.
What if I told you that's a typical human thing to daydream about even if it's not the most productive or good one to do?

We all have frustrations and anger about people in our lives and that is blowing off steam so long as it stays as just that and nothing more.
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Beastro wrote: Wed May 18, 2022 5:51 am
Dragon Ball Fan wrote: Wed May 18, 2022 5:20 am actually, fairly recently, I fantasized about hunting down and murdering right wingers, remembering what those shows from my youth, helped me out of that o I see that same budding psycopathy in a lot of the left, I know what it can lead to, so, that's why I focus on it.
What if I told you that's a typical human thing to daydream about even if it's not the most productive or good one to do?

We all have frustrations and anger about people in our lives and that is blowing off steam so long as it stays as just that and nothing more.
Sorry, no, it is wrong to even think about that and I can't imagine a mentally stable person having those thoughts. Yes, I am saying I was mentally unstable at that point in my life.
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Dragon Ball Fan wrote: Wed May 18, 2022 5:20 am
Beastro wrote: Wed May 18, 2022 3:14 am
Dragon Ball Fan wrote: Tue May 17, 2022 7:02 pm
Beastro wrote: Tue May 17, 2022 4:37 am
Dragon Ball Fan wrote: Sat May 14, 2022 12:47 am
If I have a negative physical reaction to those emotions, I don't think I can.
Carefully think over what you said that I was replying to:
the mere thought of being anything other then compassionate to everyone at all times literally gives me a muscle spasm.
You cannot live like that. It's impossible. You're setting yourself up for failure if you don't work on this.
But if I live like that, I will not have a muscle spasm and be happy.
People cannot be compassionate all the time nor should they. There is more to life than that and compassion can be crippling. IIRC, I mentioned before that I've seen this happen to family members of mine due to how deeply empathetic they are with others, especially in pain.

Expecting the world to be that will torment you and expecting it is, again as with other issues like pointing the finger at the cartoons you watched as a kid, you refusing to grow and mature by holding onto what you refuse to shed of your past self.

We all struggle to do it and are all in the process of doing it, but you are actively defending doing it.
actually, fairly recently, I fantasized about hunting down and murdering right wingers, remembering what those shows from my youth, helped me out of that o I see that same budding psycopathy in a lot of the left, I know what it can lead to, so, that's why I focus on it.
Wait... hold up here. So being anything other than compassionate to everyone makes you physically ill, but you also fantasise about murdering people with opinions you disagree with?

You sound like Jesus Christ performed the fusion dance with Michael Corleone. Or you're trolling. The latter would explain much tbh.
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clearspira wrote: Wed May 18, 2022 9:33 am
Dragon Ball Fan wrote: Wed May 18, 2022 5:20 am
Beastro wrote: Wed May 18, 2022 3:14 am
Dragon Ball Fan wrote: Tue May 17, 2022 7:02 pm
Beastro wrote: Tue May 17, 2022 4:37 am
Dragon Ball Fan wrote: Sat May 14, 2022 12:47 am
If I have a negative physical reaction to those emotions, I don't think I can.
Carefully think over what you said that I was replying to:
the mere thought of being anything other then compassionate to everyone at all times literally gives me a muscle spasm.
You cannot live like that. It's impossible. You're setting yourself up for failure if you don't work on this.
But if I live like that, I will not have a muscle spasm and be happy.
People cannot be compassionate all the time nor should they. There is more to life than that and compassion can be crippling. IIRC, I mentioned before that I've seen this happen to family members of mine due to how deeply empathetic they are with others, especially in pain.

Expecting the world to be that will torment you and expecting it is, again as with other issues like pointing the finger at the cartoons you watched as a kid, you refusing to grow and mature by holding onto what you refuse to shed of your past self.

We all struggle to do it and are all in the process of doing it, but you are actively defending doing it.
actually, fairly recently, I fantasized about hunting down and murdering right wingers, remembering what those shows from my youth, helped me out of that o I see that same budding psycopathy in a lot of the left, I know what it can lead to, so, that's why I focus on it.
Wait... hold up here. So being anything other than compassionate to everyone makes you physically ill, but you also fantasise about murdering people with opinions you disagree with?

You sound like Jesus Christ performed the fusion dance with Michael Corleone. Or you're trolling. The latter would explain much tbh.
I used to have those fantasies but even then, I knew they were wrong and has those physical reactions.
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