I've really just never heard anything that bad about her as a foil.ChiggyvonRichthofen wrote: ↑Fri May 08, 2020 4:11 pm
I didn't see The Sopranos until it was off the air for over a decade, so I don't know exactly how strong Carmela hate was back then, but my impression is that it was her hypocrisy that people really despised. Unlike Skylar, Carmela actually knew what Tony was up to, but she chose to ignore it most of the time because she loved the lifestyle. That is, she ignored it until she had a reason to hold it over Tony's head, at which point she proceeded to act innocent and holier-than-thou. In public she always had Tony's back though.
If people go easier on Carmela than Skylar, imo it's because the Carmela stuff was better integrated into the fabric of The Sopranos, since that series was just as much a character study/family drama as it was a mob show. Skylar often felt more like a road block.
But really on top of it being a design of the show for her, Tony in no way is seen as a faithful husband and the show formidably makes things a matter of his own undoing with his relationship to her.