You don't really explain how exactly I am cruel there, so please elaborate.Fuzzy Necromancer wrote:Madner Kami, you are being needlessly cruel.
I don't have to. As I said, it is personal experience and everybody is free to have a good look around oneself and, given you are a "believer" as well, have a good look at yourself and your actions. When, for example, was the last time you ate pork? Forbidden by god. Did you shave recently? Did you know that god doesn't want you to do that? Have you ever read a horoscope? God considers you filthy and god demands that you stone the person who wrote that horoscope to death. Have you done so recently? No? Why? Deus Vult! Or those famed choirs so often depicted as being standard in american churches, you know, the sister act ones with those gorgous black lady voices? God does not like that, as women are forbidden to speak in church.Fuzzy Necromancer wrote:First, you claim that most believers are insincere in their beliefs, just going out of social pressure, without presenting any evidence for the case.
Can you see why I think what I think? People say they believe XYZ but are happily ignoring everything left and right, just because it inconviniences them or robs them of pleasure. I don't doubt that many "believers" do believe in something supernatural, but I doubt that they believe what they pretend to believe in. They attend church not because they feel attached to the rules given to them by the magic sky-daddy, but because it gives them a sense of belonging and interconnection, usually being subscribed to a given belief by their parents and that's what I meant by peer-pressure. They certainly belief in something and they may feel they are sincere in what they say, but the thing is, they just aren't sincere, which makes the gesture, even if meant in earnest, hypocritical and insincere, hollow, dishonest.
You do realize, that you have just proven my point about true believers, right? And I find it funny that you name the "free will" that god doesn't want to interfere with, because this is one of the easiest to debunk mental gymnastics. Just have a look at the bible and you'll find plenty of moments were god had no quarrels with interfering with people's free will, making them do what he wants either directly or indirectly and even if you do not want to reach there, then ask yourself: If god didn't want to interfere with the free will of the murderer, then what about the free will of the murdered? They certainly didn't want to die, or at least not die in the way they did. Why is the free will of the murderer more important than the free will of the murdered? This is exactly the type of mental gymnastics that make true believers so hard to take serious. They have to reach to absurd lengths to justify either the ill will or the willful ignorance of god and they can turn it however they please, but either god condones evil or ignores it. Such a being can not be good.Fuzzy Necromancer wrote:Second, there are more than two options here. Some people believe that bad things make sense on a cosmic scale that we mortals cannot comprehend, or that Yaweh refrains from intervening in certain areas because of a compact with mankind about free will, or various other "mental gymnastics". Just because YOU, personally, cannot reconcile an all-powerful, all-loving, all-knowing deity with these tragedies, that doesn't mean other people can't.
And please, do not reach for the "god has a plan" thing. If god is almighty, then god could have made us however he wanted, then he could change us to be however he wants us to be. He, however, choose to make us the way we are and this is making him directly responsible for everything bad that happens, because nothing can happen against his will, in fact, everything happens because of his will. Sending thoughts and prayers in such a case is, as stated before, outright offensive, especially when it is sincere.
In other words, it's a worthless action, an empty gesture. it's something to make you feel better, because it gives you the illusion of having a sort of agency in a matter, when you really have none. It's a waste of time.Fuzzy Necromancer wrote:Terry Pratchett framed prayer as "something you can do when there's nothing you can do."
See, you are not powerless. Your influence on many matters may be miniscule, but it is there. So why invest time into an empty gesture that does nothing, while at the same time there is something you can do? Don't pray for an end of gun violence, because that is just not going to happen, whether there is a god (because he doesn't mind it one way or another, maybe even condones it) or not (because how could gun violence end by praying, if literally nobody is hearing the praying). Instead of praying, call your representative and let him know how you feel about what actions could be taken and talk with other people about it, so they may change their mind as well and thus have a larger impact. Obviously, often that won't change a thing in the grand scheme of things, but at least you did what is within your power of doing. This is worth enormously more than praying to or for something, because in the end, a prayer will always be just a lot of empty words. Empty words that are, at best, a waste of everybody's time and, at worst, a cruel, mocking joke.Fuzzy Necromancer wrote:I pray for an end to gun violence because I, personally, as Joe Fuckwad, an under-employed millenial living in a crowded row-house, have very little power to affect national policy and can do fuckall to prevent the next mass shooting. I called up my senators, begging them to pass ANY kind of basic gun regulation, for much the same reason. I, a powerless person, am petitioning inscrutable supernatural beings to act on my behalf. I ask those with power to do things for those who have none.
That is why it is insulting coming from these senators, while they deposite their fat NRA bribery checks.
At this point? I'm not even convinced they ARE praying for the shooting victims. I think they are praying thanks to God for rewarding their Seed in accordance with prosperity doctrine, and intend to keep doing whatever brings them more money because they've convinced themselves that earthly riches are a sign of divine favor.