Current cultural norms? No, that simply is not true. A strong mate is determined by the ability to reproduce, both in health and in the ability to protect. That has always been true. That is why the majority do not find old age and bones and injuries beautiful. That's why women with full breasts and smooth skin get more attention than doughy, plain women and men with masculine features get more attention than nerds as these are traits that indicate that this man/woman will be ideal to produce and raise children. That is how it has always been, the only thing that has changed this SLIGHTLY nowadays is that our comfortable lives have begun to obsolete our evolved drives. Women can afford weaker men and men can afford weaker women because we now have the police and medical services a phone call away.Fuzzy Necromancer wrote: ↑Mon Sep 03, 2018 12:46 amYou need to talk with more biologists and less evo psych theorists.clearspira wrote: ↑Sun Sep 02, 2018 11:17 pm Human beings are animals as much as we like to forget that. We evolved with the base instinct for power because power means food, water, shelter, and a strong mate. And those who are too weak to gain power automatically gravitate towards those that do for the exact same reasons. These traits became obsolete only after these things became easily available, which I would argue was the 19th century minimum.
Strong mate is not an inbuilt human drive, and our idea of what makes an acceptable partner for couple is informed by current cultural norms.
It is called survival of the fittest.